1st – Do NOT ask her how much she weighs, what her vital statistics are, and the like. It’s much better telling her that you are only after her body and only wants to sleep with her without caring or taking interest on her personality. Believe it or NOT, that’s what she is going to think once you ask her this.

2nd – Do NOT email or chat up with her – asking why she hasn’t responded to your previous mail. For one thing, women get way more email than men do. You need to be patient and take your time. Not to mention constantly doing this makes you look needy, clingy, and unconfident. Instead of bombarding her with such emails, be confident and assume that she is going to reply to you.

3rd – Do NOT ask her how many dates she had been with people from the online dating site you are in. It doesn’t really matter how many dates she has been through. What matters is that you find out whether the two of you are compatible – if you both click when you hang out together or NOT.

4th – Forget about sending her nasty and not so friendly emails when she doesn’t respond to you after several ones. It’s her choice if she replies to you or NOT. If she doesn’t want to meet up with you, there’s no point in being angry and nasty. That’s another sign that you are being needy – begging or better yet demanding for attention. Think about it – there are plenty of other girls out there. Why NOT look for those who would reply to you rather than to those who wouldn’t? That’s more productive no matter how you look it.

5th – Don’t even think about asking her to have sex with you on your second email exchange. And no, sending her dirty pictures of you won’t get her hot at all. Women are NOT just looking for physical connection, they are also looking for mental and emotional links. Well, you may be looking for a quick fling, you can find women who are after the same, BUT more often than not you will just offend someone else.

6th – When you get a phone number from a girl, do NOT wait for a week before you call her. BUT do not get giddy and call her just seconds after you got her number (you will come off as too eager and a little clingy). However, do call her on the same day. Get this, if you wait for a week before calling and she doesn’t respond back or she acts too cold, don’t be surprised. Women have truckloads of options online. When she gives you her phone number, that means she wants to have a good chit chat with you. Calling that day keeps the momentum going.

7th – Do NOT feel offended if she doesn’t want to talk to you on the phone yet or if she wants to talk to you through email first just to get to know you. Be open minded, flexible, and considerate concerning her suggestions. After all, finding a date is serious stuff and you need to test the waters first. No need to rush, you may need to exchange emails back and forth. There are times, though, that you would get a phone number right away. Whatever the case, just don’t be rude and don’t rush things.

8th – Do NOT stalk her by bombarding her with emails. I’ve heard a lot of women complaining about men who can do nothing better than email them like 10 times a week – forcing them to block emails from these guys. Don’t think that she didn’t get your email because, believe me, she did. It may be her choice not to open and you shouldn’t force matters. Sending her several emails a day would only turn her off, or worse, freak her out.

Chemistry.com – What Made It So Innovative?
You may ask – what sets it apart from the rest of the pack? According to the experts behind Chemistry.com online dating service, worthwhile and long term relationships are built on 2 very important foundations – first compatibility, next chemistry. Many sites out there just deal with the former – compatibility. HOWEVER, this site’s matchmaking function is based on years of research into the human attraction and elements of successful relationship, which is chemistry in short.

From the questions and surveys that you have to go through, up to the process of communicating with your matches (which is rightly named First Meet Technology), it’s easy to realize that a lot of time and effort were invested to design an online dating system that works…not like those dating sites where you base everything on what you read and see.

Take a look at their profile creation for example – you get to encounter normal text questions as well as the ability to select one or more questions. However, you will also have to answer questions on images – like which is the most romantic, and you will also be asked to complete a puzzle. You will also have to listen to some sound bites and answer it in a way in which your opinion best fits. YES, the matching system of Chemistry.com takes a closer look into your heart and mind through the type of questions they ask.

In the end, the website comes up with matches that are highly compatible to you, people you may NOT even take a glance at if everything – the whole matching and compatibility process, is left on your own devices.

Chemistry.com – The Niceties
With Chemistry.com, you get to create one of the most detailed and most interesting profiles that online daters could ever lay their sights on. Chemistry.com’s combination of normal multiple choice questions, surveys, unique image questions, sound bites, and everything in between has been proven to be very effective for searching a highly compatible match. Not to mention creating a profile with them is extremely FUN!

Chemistry.com also offers a full 14 day trial offer (and you don’t have to spend even a single dime). No need to use coupons, promo codes, and the like. You are entitled to it as a new member of the online dating site.

And here’s the nice thing about it – this online dating service is now available to singles in Canada who are looking for a long term and worthwhile relationship.

The Howlers Of Chemistry.com
If you are one of those singles who sign up for online dating sites to search through their database in search for the profile of someone who will appeal to you, then Chemistry.com is NOT the place to go. You see, you are allowed to view members who are considered to be highly compatible to you according to Chemistry.com’s matchmaking system.

Chemistry.com online dating site and service is meant for members who are serious about internet dating and developing a long and worthwhile relationship. No one night stands, no pissing off other people, virtually no spam, no non-sense matchmaking technology – if you think it’s worthwhile to exchange the ability to browse through myriads of profiles for these niceties, Chemistry.com is for you.

Mind you, though, the profile creation service is so detailed that it would take you about 30 minutes to an hour to finish it. Worry not, you can always save your work and come back to it to finish it.

The Best Feature Of eHarmony!
Unlike other online dating sites that base everything on quizzes, profiles, surveys (and everything in between) that have been so overused, eHarmony bases its matching on detailed relationship algorithms that we will take a closer look at later.

The Feature Of eHarmony That I Hate Most!
Once you become a paid member of eHarmony, you can only reply and communicate with PAID members. That means even if you have well over 100 highly compatible matches, if none of those are paid members, then it’s pretty useless. As we will see, however, the pros outnumber the cons.

Read on!

My Personal Experience On eHarmony
As someone who has used different dating sites, I can confidently say that eHarmony.com is, without even a trace of doubt, one of the most unique online dating services around. You can tell right from the very beginning that the guys behind eHarmony are NOT just after your credit card details – they want you to be in harmony with other online daters and eventually, through a detailed process, find someone that you like who is highly compatible with you.

The whole website is based on the idea there are hundreds of different dimensions that make you up and every person. With that in mind, by analyzing your different dimensions, the online dating website can come up with matches that are highly compatible for you.

Unlike other websites, eHarmony is NOT relying so much on the visual. It’s not like the pick them as you see them websites where finding a partner relies so much on what you see – which is very hit and miss if you ask me! Once you sign up for a eHarmony membership, whether you like it or not, you must complete an in depth personality survey. It’s so detailed that it could take like an hour or so to finish. This alone shows you that the people behind the online dating service knows their thing and they are serious about delivering.

This in depth survey delves deeply into hundreds of different dimensions that you have. After that, the websites uses your responses to find eHarmony members that are highly compatible with you – those who you would click with and have a great time together. This means people who are not serious enough to take the survey – guys looking for one night stands for example, are less likely to sign up.

What’s left? A bunch of singles who are looking to spend time with someone worthwhile – someone like you!

Here’s another nice fact about eHarmony – on most sites, the ratio between men to women is 70 is to 30. But on eHarmony, the ladies outnumber the guys. If you are a male and you are looking for a meaningful and long term relationship, visiting eHarmony is one of the best things that you can do.

As a paid member, you can ask for communication with any of your highly compatible matches. BUT before you can email them, you need to get through a process even if your match agrees with you:

- You need to select 5 personality, character, and relationship based questions from a list for the other person to answer. Your match gets to do the same in turn.

- You need to submit your must have and must NOT have list – showing your match what you want in a partner and what you can’t stand.

- Submit 3 open ended questions that the other person answers. You can write your own or you can pick from a list of predetermined questions if you like.

Bottom line, you have a higher chance of picking someone that would click with you before you invest all of those time and effort chit-chatting, dating, meeting up, etc.

The BEST Feature Of Match.com
When it comes to searching for a potential mate, Match.com came up with something that no other online dating site doesn’t have – keyword search function. YES, looking for a date at Match.com is like doing a search in Google.com and browsing through the pages. All you have to do is type in a word that you think is relevant to the type of individual you are looking for and Match.com works in the background – doing all of the grunt work, until it returns results and profiles that match the keyword.

It seems like Match.com comes with it guns blazing – boasting a search engine that has been designed specifically for profiles. No doubt, this is one of the best advancements in the online dating industry.

The WORST Feature Of Match.com
Having tried many different online dating services and websites, Match.com, by far, is the only one that posts annoying and sometimes even irrelevant ads so much…so much that it would even interfere with what you are reading or doing. For sure, Match.com is already making a lot of dough through the subscription alone. I think throwing annoying ads at their users is uncalled for.

Other Niceties Of Match.com
Aside from being clean and well organized PLUS having a systematic navigation page, Match.com offers niceties that shows why it is one of the oldest and most popular online dating sites that ever existed. Through the years, the brains behind this online dating website continues to improve their service. They are not like their sister site (Udate.com) and other online dating services that remain stagnant – never moving forward.

When it comes to features, Match.com is extremely rich! While it is true that many of them will cost you a couple of bucks beyond your subscription, many of them are worth every penny – helping you find your date much easier and allowing you to interact with Match.com users in a safer and better way.

One more thing that I like about Match.com is their excellent handling of the communication phase between users. When you are about to send an email to someone you set your sights on, you will spot a very user friendly email screen that pops up – showing the picture of the person you are emailing and what they said about themselves.

This gives you easy reference when you are left scratching…thinking what to write to this potential partner of yours. HOWEVER, the real winner is the Seven Terrific Tips for writing an email message. This helps you create a message that comes with more impact that you otherwise would never think of!

Along with that, they also include a personality survey as well as quizlets that will let you know yourself better. Appropriately called as Self Discovery, these surveys and quizlets are very easy and fun to take and view. Are you a snob? Are you looking for a high maintenance honey? Answer one of the Self Discovery surveys and quizlets from Match.com and find out!

Bottom Line
I have been on Match.com for like 3 months now and I’m liking it. While I have already communicated with other people and yet to meet someone, the time I have spent with the site is still pretty short (and I’m not in a rush by the way). The features, easy navigation, and innovative search functions make interacting with fellow Match.com members a breeze!

It won’t take long before I find someone worth meeting.

1. So you got to date one of your online buddies? Yeah? Good for you! However, is this scenario familiar to you? After walking your date to her door at the end of the day, instead of having the confidence to kiss her, you only asked her if she had a great time. Now asking itself isn’t wrong, BUT it simply shows you don’t have what it takes to take charge of the situation. You see, women are attracted to confident men. They hate having to tell you if they had a good time – they want men who are confident and secure enough in themselves to assume that they did have a great time.

2. Have you called one of your online dates last night? Yeah? Let me guess – she hasn’t replied to any of your messages, phone calls, emails, and everything in between so you call, text, or email her YET AGAIN to ask her if she got your message. This is perfect – if you want to get her running for the hills away from you that is. Doing that simply shows that your world revolves around her, that you are needy and you don’t have anything going for yourself – no friends to hang out with, no job to take care of, none whatsoever!

3. You text a woman or email her through her online dating profile 5 to 6 times a day. Guess what – you are over texting her! Take it easy, you don’t need to check her out and message her every two hours or so. It’s a huge sign of neediness – that you are clingy. And believe me, that is a HUGE turn off.

4. Does this sound familiar to you? You missed a phone call on your cell phone. And according to the registry, it’s from a phone number that you don’t know. Next, you call the woman you were dating and whom you just talked to a couple of minutes ago. And you ask: “Did you just call me?” I hate to say it BUT this sort of behavior is going to scare her away. A big NO NO if you want to be successful in online dating.

5. Here’s another one – you agree with everything that she says. That may seem insignificant to you, BUT get this – women are NOT looking for the man who doesn’t have balls and simply agrees with everything they say. Women want a man who is challenging enough and is NOT afraid to disagree with what they say. They want men whom they can learn something from, and they won’t learn anything from someone who just nods their head in agreement. Along with hat, you are telling her in an indirect wat that you will do everything to have a relationship with her – another huge sign of being needy.

6. You are too available. Another BIG no no. If you made plans with your friends, stick with it and keep it. Even if that hot cutie asks you to do something that night with her, stick with the plan and have a great time with your friends. Don’t be a convenience store – don’t be 7-Eleven – convenient, ready, and available ’round the clock and all week ’round.

7. You do everything you can to please a woman all the time. Guess what – that’s boring. True, I feel good when I do nice things for women, BUT don’t just give it away. She has to earn it. There are men who will let women to walk over them and they will be like a sponge and allow her to do it again and again. That’s a surefire way to make her lose respect for you and dump you when they find someone who has enough guts and balls to call on them when they are doing something foul.

Mistake Number 1
“You keep on searching for the PERFECT online dating website.”

Let me ask you one thing – if an overweight friend of yours tells you he cannot lose weight because he can’t find the perfect fitness gym, what would be your reaction? Most likely, you would stare at him in utter disbelief, shake your head, or even laugh your guts out. It’s easy to see that it’s NOT the gyms in the area that has the problem. Instead, it all boils down to your friends dedication. The same thing can be said with online dating. If you are NOT dedicated or motivated enough to find the right date for you, no matter how great an online website is – the features, the singles in it, and everything in between, would not cut it. Keep this in mind – any website that has all of the basic features (chat functions, email, virtual rooms, profiles, etc.) filled with singles can be the RIGHT website for you. At the end of the day, it’s how you use that site that determines your success.

Mistake Number 2
“I’m great looking, I have a nice paying job, I’m confident – I’m everything that a potential partner could be looking for. I’m a catch and online dating should be piece of cake.”

That’s another not so helpful mindset that may be holding you back from succeeding in online dating. Think about it – let’s say you are really a catch and if being one makes finding potential partners, one night stands, etc. easy, then you shouldn’t be on the online dating site in the first place! Since you won’t have problems finding a potential mate, they will flock to you – from your workplace, through mutual friends, and everything in betwen. As you may have realized by now, being a catch isn’t the end all and be all dating solution. Matter of fact, you may even be baffled by the men who write to you – those who look like they have been out of jail, just came from a 9 month stay at the hospital, etc. How come the guys you want don’t write to you?

Simple – because they think they are great catches, too. And just like you, they have hundreds of options – they may find younger and prettier mates, because he can. So drop that “I’m A Catch” mentality (take your pride or ego down by a notch or two) and stop waiting. It’s about time you start messaging and chatting up with the guys or gals that you like. Go for those online daters who are looking for the same thing that you do and you will surely have greater success.

Simple. Any man who you think is a great catch has hundreds of options. And when a guy has that many choices, he’s often going to search for younger women. Why? Because he can. So forget these guys and their unrealistic Playboy fantasies. Mr. Right is the man who wants YOU. Focus your attentions on the men who are searching for you, instead of the ones who aren’t, and you’ll have far greater success.

Mistake Number 3
“You are bombarding that girl or guy you like emails and messages – sending them like 5 emails a day for weeks. Online terrorism!”

This mistake is like the exact opposite of mistake number two. I don’t know which of the two mistakes are worse BUT this one definitely makes you look needy – something you want to avoid at all costs whether in online or real life dating. Think about it, would you reply to someone who stalks you online? I don’t think so. I bet you would even set your email to filter out and ignore the messages from that guy. When you stalk somebody online with truckloads of emails, believe me, they feel the same and it won’t be long before they avoid you like someone who has leprosy…and there goes your chances of getting her out of the window.

Reminder 1
When you are finding a date online and reading through the different profiles, do NOT believe everything you see or read. Some may be true, BUT trust me, many of them are outright lies. If one person – he or she, sounds too good to be true – has a great paying job, has a lot of friends, attractive, in simpler terms the complete package, then most likely you have encountered a bad and rotten egg. When you meet people through online dating sites, take your time to get to know them. Better check their stories for discrepancies. Once you get to the point where they reveal personal stuff, you can always verify the details. If they claim to work for a local community, study at this or that college, etc. check if it’s true. Public record is a valuable resource.

Reminder 2
Remember the old saying – “If you can’t say anything nice (or at least makes sense), don’t say anything at all.” YES, that old adage applies even to online dating. You see, people feel invincible when they are in chat rooms. People get irresponsible for their actions. When the fingers start typing or keying in words, things move REALLY fast and it won’t be long before things get out of control and the chat rooms turns to a virtual UFC octagon. Before saying something, stop and listen. If you can’t and won’t say it to a total stranger point blank or face to face, then better not say it at all.

Reminder 3
Always be available. Are you having a hard time accessing your online dating profile? So you don’t have access to the World Wide Web ’round the clock? If that’s the case, then you could hurt your chances. This could cause problems in the online dating world. People – online daters, are trying this method of socialization for many reasons. And one of them is to get quick responses. If you can’t keep up, they will move on, chat with, and date someone else. Don’t get me wrong though. That doesn’t mean you have to confine yourself in the four corners of your room and chat there all day and all night. Online dating is no substitute in real life socialization. Here’s a tip, why don’t you set a specific time aside from the online dating chat rooms, respond to emails in a timely fashion, and do what you have to do? That would surely help.

Reminder 4
Your safety always comes first, second, and third. If you are going to walk away from this article with just one piece of advice, make it this one. Once you have gathered the confidence to met with someone face to face, keep in mind that you don’t know what awaits, you don’t know what you are expecting. Here are some tips to make your first meet up a safe one – meet in a public place. If possible, drive your own car. This will help you greatly in maintaining control of your environment, not to mention with your own car, you can leave if you feel uncomfortable. Even if your first date leads to a second, third, or fourth, remember: you have just met. No need to rush things and take it to an intimate and steamy level.

Tip 1 – Stick of brief BUT effective headline that creates a huge impact and very well relates to you. Headlines like – “Single and looking for YOU!” are acceptable, BUT they must be stomped. If you want your headline to have a lot of punching power, don’t stick to what is acceptable. For one thing, such headlines don’t tell anything about you, your personalities, and the activities you love engaging in. And think about it – people know that you are on a dating site because you are single and looking for a potential partner. Instead, look for something creative that would set you apart from the competition, headlines that will make someone curious enough to look twice.

Tip 2 – Your profile should very well tie in your headline. In your headline try asking some questions or leave open ended statements, and in your profile answer it. Let’s say your headline asks – “What’s New?” your profile, the first sentence of it, could say something like you have started college, everything changed for the better, found your own place, landed a nice paying job, so on and so forth. From there, you could post pictures, videos, etc. showing it.

Tip 3 – As mentioned earlier, you need to post pictures relating to what you are doing in your life. Emphasize the activities that you are interested in, your hobbies, interests, etc. that you want to have in common with a potential date through pictures and images. Are you someone who is into customizing cars, sports, night life, and everything else in between? Yeah? Then post pictures conveying those interests. Using seasonally applicable photographs is also of great importance. For example, if it’s summer, post pictures of what you do during summer. Use a picture that is clear and current as your primary photo. First impressions will make or break you, and getting the right photo will give you an edge over the competition.

Tip 4 – Jot down the activities you are currently in. Are you a member of the chess club, have you been in tournaments? Are you representing your college or university in different competitions? Say so and better yet, as told earlier, post pictures showing you engaging in those activities. Doing so will paint a better and clearer picture of how your time is spent. Here’s an even better suggestion – tell a couple of things and activities you would want to do with the person you met – sky diving, watching movies, going to different places, don’t be shy and state it.

Tip 5 – Instead of focusing on what you don’t want in a person and in a relationship, put emphasis on what you want. Statements like – “I hate gamers” “I hate party goers” and the like are to be avoided. Such statements are negative and the person reading on the other side of the World Wide Web will think that your life has a tendency of being surrounded with drama. And that is something they definitely want to avoid. Instead, say something like “I love people who are fun to be with, sensitive in a nice way, easy going, BUT responsible.” That has a much better chances of getting the responses that you desire.

Tip 6 – Your profile’s large paragraphs should be divided into shorter ones – ones that have no more than three sentences. As a college student, I’m pretty sure you often skim the reading and studying material for your next class because they are in large and long blocks of texts. Even though you need that material to fare well in the lesson later that day, you get bored with it, skip it, and your brain never processes it. You see, by using short paragraphs that highlight important topics and areas about your life, your readers will have a better time remembering what you just said.

That’s what the creators of Singlesnet.com claim. Is it for real? Or is it just like your average online dating site – filled with ads, scarce with singles worthwhile to meet, and the like? Why don’t we take a deeper and closer look at the site to find out?

Singlesnet.com Membership – What’s Inside?
For a couple of years, Singlesnet.com online dating site came with a disclaimer in their front page, saying that membership is free for a limited time only (or something along those lines). The NOT so fortunate thing though is that the difference between their paid and free membership is not clearly stated.

For example, on the billing page of the said online dating service, it states that the users get prioritized and first page listing for search results. It didn’t take long, however, to realize that when you are viewing a search, the results are a complex mix of paid and free members across the board. Also, the billing adds:

“Once you go for the compatibility matching system, we will recognize you as a featured member and we will work harder on finding highly compatible matches for you.” BUT here’s the thing, how the “work harder” part works is NOT clearly stated. Almost everything, including their matching system, seems automated. For example, within seconds of signing up for Singlesnet.com, 3 matches would immediately show up in the member’s inbox.

I don’t know BUT it seems like free members have access to all of the features that paid members of Singlesnet.com enjoy. HOWEVER, free members are limited on how many people they can contact for free. On the other hand, paid members can start conversations and contact as many people as they like, and in turn, they can allow free Singlesnet.com to respond back to them without spending a dime. Phone support, money back guarantee, etc. – these are just some of the offers for paid Singlesnet.com member.

How Popular Is Singlesnet.com
Online marketing and research firms like HitWise and Jupiter Research have discovered that Singlesnet.com is one of the most popular online dating sites in the world. It has been on top of the industry for a couple of years now. This is good news for those who are looking for a lifetime partner, a date, a one night stand, and everything in between.

Singlesnet.com being one of the most popular dating sites means you won’t run out of options, you won’t run out of people to meet, and potential dates. If you are someone who is after more on quantity, if you are someone who looks at dating as a numbers game, Singlesnet.com is the online dating website and service to go to.

Unique Features And Benefits Of Singlesnet.com
As for signing up, Singlesnet.com comes with an extremely quick sign up process. How long? Well, the site says it should only take you 30 seconds. BUT it took me 2 minutes in total. Still, it’s NOT a disappointment.

Along with that, Singlesnet.com caters to wide variety of singles. Straight males and females, heterosexuals, gays, lesbians – whatever you think is your gender, Singlesnet.com online dating website and service is more than up to the task. They are filled with like minded individuals who would be more than glad to meet up with you, have a date, have a one night stand, or even a long term and meaning relationship.

“Online Dating Made Easy!”

I think I would have to agree with Singlesnet.com’s slogan!

BUT here’s the unfortunate thing – a couple of years ago LavaLife online dating website switched to the more conventional monthly payment system for their new users. HOWEVER, long time members still have the option of using the good old credit system…something that new users cannot enjoy.

Anyway, no point in crying over spilled milk, let’s a closer look at the best and worst features that LavaLife has to offer. Check these out:

The Best Feature That LavaLife Has To Offer
Before LavaLife changed to the monthly payment system, the best thing that this online dating website is their very effective credit system. With that gone, it seems that LavaLife is just another online dating site with truckloads of singles looking for their soon to be lifetime partner.

HOWEVER, they have an excellent replacement over the previous credit system. You see, many online dating sites force you to pay a monthly fee just to respond to emails. That’s NOT the case with LavaLife though. You can respond to emails you receive for FREE. Another nice thing is that they don’t automatically charge you monthly “for your own convenience” (as other sites would put it).

The Most Annoying LavaLife.com Feature
As with anything, there is always a not so pleasant side and LavaLife is no exception. You can’t turn off the instant messaging feature – this is, in my opinion, one of the most annoying and worst features that this online dating site offers. That’s especially true for women. The lookers and cuties in these online dating site will surely have a hard time browsing as they will be interrupted all the time with someone wanting to chat with them through Instant Messaging.

My Personal Experience With The Site
In a nutshell, LavaLife online dating website is one of those that fall into the “fun dating service” category. It comes with features that are unique and useful. HOWEVER, at the same time, these features might also give people a hard time, especially women, who are on the hunt for a meaningful and long term relationship or a quality date and meet up.

Navigating on the site is very easy. You will find 3 unique areas of the service – they are dating, relationship, and intimate encounters. Clicking through one of them allows you to easily view the new section. Here are some points of improvement that, hopefully, will get to the owners of the site:

- Let the users turn off the instant messaging feature. As mentioned earlier, the inability to do so greatly hinders women who are browsing, looking for a meaningful date – it won’t be surprising if they are getting like 40 IMs every minute.

- Let the users better organize the way the view those LavaLife users who are in their area. Here’s a quick example – arrange the program so that when they log in, they can check those who are online locally and within the users preferred age range.

- PLEASE, bring back the credit system! It was a successful part of your start up. This sets LavaLife from the rest of the pack. I don’t see the point of removing it.

Aside from those, LavaLife online dating site is still highly recommended. If you are on the hunt for singles who are worthwhile meeting, if you are on the lookout for an online dating site that comes with features that make the process much easier, then this is one of the websites to seriously check out.