If you have been in one of the most popular online dating sites for a couple of months now, have been dating someone for a couple of times now, and you can’t seem to get to the next level, get this – there is something wrong with you. Chances are, you are making one of the online dating habits that make you look unconfident and needy. Believe me, many are guilty of the following habits. And if you don’t have even the slightest idea what they are, then it’s about time to read on and get rid of them right away:

1. So you got to date one of your online buddies? Yeah? Good for you! However, is this scenario familiar to you? After walking your date to her door at the end of the day, instead of having the confidence to kiss her, you only asked her if she had a great time. Now asking itself isn’t wrong, BUT it simply shows you don’t have what it takes to take charge of the situation. You see, women are attracted to confident men. They hate having to tell you if they had a good time – they want men who are confident and secure enough in themselves to assume that they did have a great time.

2. Have you called one of your online dates last night? Yeah? Let me guess – she hasn’t replied to any of your messages, phone calls, emails, and everything in between so you call, text, or email her YET AGAIN to ask her if she got your message. This is perfect – if you want to get her running for the hills away from you that is. Doing that simply shows that your world revolves around her, that you are needy and you don’t have anything going for yourself – no friends to hang out with, no job to take care of, none whatsoever!

3. You text a woman or email her through her online dating profile 5 to 6 times a day. Guess what – you are over texting her! Take it easy, you don’t need to check her out and message her every two hours or so. It’s a huge sign of neediness – that you are clingy. And believe me, that is a HUGE turn off.

4. Does this sound familiar to you? You missed a phone call on your cell phone. And according to the registry, it’s from a phone number that you don’t know. Next, you call the woman you were dating and whom you just talked to a couple of minutes ago. And you ask: “Did you just call me?” I hate to say it BUT this sort of behavior is going to scare her away. A big NO NO if you want to be successful in online dating.

5. Here’s another one – you agree with everything that she says. That may seem insignificant to you, BUT get this – women are NOT looking for the man who doesn’t have balls and simply agrees with everything they say. Women want a man who is challenging enough and is NOT afraid to disagree with what they say. They want men whom they can learn something from, and they won’t learn anything from someone who just nods their head in agreement. Along with hat, you are telling her in an indirect wat that you will do everything to have a relationship with her – another huge sign of being needy.

6. You are too available. Another BIG no no. If you made plans with your friends, stick with it and keep it. Even if that hot cutie asks you to do something that night with her, stick with the plan and have a great time with your friends. Don’t be a convenience store – don’t be 7-Eleven – convenient, ready, and available ’round the clock and all week ’round.

7. You do everything you can to please a woman all the time. Guess what – that’s boring. True, I feel good when I do nice things for women, BUT don’t just give it away. She has to earn it. There are men who will let women to walk over them and they will be like a sponge and allow her to do it again and again. That’s a surefire way to make her lose respect for you and dump you when they find someone who has enough guts and balls to call on them when they are doing something foul.